Marriage is a choice

Marriage is a choice, not to kill or looking for a long-term meal ticket, the more intense, quite so a point bet. No matter choose who, is an investment, no matter choose primitive, potential shares or peak shares, all need to take risks. Choice is the most important, you is the master of his own choice, can choose whether to get married, also can choose who get married with, but this initiative is not absolutely, when in love or miss the best timing, the initiative will involuntarily delivery to others or the power to put a put.

No matter how choice, god is always there for you when the choice, the doctrine of the mean, won't make you perfect, also won't let you total despair. One day, Plato asked his teacher what is love, his teacher told him to to the catcher in picking a tree in the field, the largest of the whole wheat golden grain. Only during a, and pick only can go forward, cannot turn back. According to the teacher Plato and do. The results, his hands are empty out of the field. The teacher asked him why he can't pick, he said: "because can only pick a times, and can't go back, it even see a tree is large and the golden, because we don't know whether there is a better front, so there is no gold; go ahead, and find that always not as good as before meeting of good, originally the catcher in the largest and most of the golden grain, would have missed; so I then what also can't pick." The teacher said: "this is love."

Then one day, Plato asked his teacher, what marriage, his teacher told him to to the forest, and cut down a tree QuanShuLin largest and most exuberant, the most suitable for the Christmas tree house on the tree. It also can only pick a, and also can only go forward, cannot turn back. According to the teacher Plato and do. This time, he took an ordinary tree, not very exuberant, also not too bad tree back. The teacher asked him, how to bring this tree ordinary tree back, he said, "have the experience, the last time when I got to most of the journey is empty hands, see this tree is not too bad, then cut off, lest missed, a final and what also take not to come out. The teacher said:" this is the marriage. "

The thought has a can lasting love, but can't last forever, "not" love you not to ruin, perhaps the "than you do not" the person and you in character, but the mind cannot harmony are close to it; Perhaps, you need to use...... stabbing pain memories and repay the debt owing in love, and then in plain in the warmth of a persistent, accept the other of love and pursue, into marriages, but not "love is love" feeling, just found a home of the body and mind. This is because you from him see what you lack of things. Meet their marriage.

Love and marriage always can't be, more is not the only. As the three candles on the same only bright together, when pick up any one in sight, total feel it than any other light, the so-called love the mind, you feel like you love him, put your heart to see feel it the most bright; When you put it back, but you can't find the brightest a bit sense, you this so-called last only love is just nothing else. The feelings too much in pursuit of perfect person, always expect love be marriage, hand in hand, bread into marriage hall of a moment, think Snow White and the prince of the perfect life and began. Put on a glaring white wedding dress is only moments of Snow White, under bright lights of after the wedding, will ultimately face real life. Facing the marriage brings "positive" perfect at the same time, but must withstand "on the back of the real". So many friends after marriage, marriage is not necessarily the prelude to find love, the vows of eternal love to aesthetic fatigue by your side after will find that he or she is not the only right for you, but has become a habit of each other, in the life hard of give the individual situation.

It's like BiShuMin "tens of thousands of husband", they said in a XiangShengXiangKe plants, some deadly, some "hello I all right". So it is with people, "there are hundreds of thousands of men, can become our husband". Also men "tens of thousands of women, can become your wife", as long as find the suitable for your type.

Many people has not married, passionate in the boundless huge crowd, and that the only seek tecoda); Many people got married, still think you are not happy, regrets in original choice. The choice of marriage, it is the choice of art, no matter how choice, all have regret, but know a choice of art, creative to discover and accept, know weather, geographic location and the iron law and, you know that who is the best, as "don't choose the most expensive, choose only the best", and these have to determine by themselves, clever active found.